links.mimuki.net

todo: track down which tutorial I bastardized for my current go-to style

Site owner is explicitly friendly to people regardless of faith or lackthereof, though they do assume you're a woman. I vaguely recall in semiprivate discussions (was this in the pagan veiling discord/reddit?) they were cool with men/etc too, but that was just too uncommon a thing to merit commenting on, or something along those lines.

Articles I did not expect to have a BSDM section: this one

Articles I probably could have inferred could have a BDSM section: also this one

People will probably (possibly) assume:

• ring finger (usually left, sometimes right: engagement/wedding rings etc- well-established tradition
• pinkie (left): signet rings- less relevant in a modern context
• index (right): birthstone ring

Otherwise, as far as I can tell, have at.